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    <description>At Draw Near, we explore the beautiful truth that God, out of His deep and personal love for each of us, takes the first step to draw near. But this divine movement calls for a response—a response that shapes our lives and transforms our hearts. Together, we embark on this journey of faith, discovering the many ways God's grace and the power of the Holy Spirit work within us.
Rooted in the Catholic faith, our podcast is a space where authenticity meets joy. We’re two best friends navigating life, family, and faith with honesty, humility, and a lot of love. Each episode is a heartfelt conversation—sometimes deep, sometimes lighthearted, but always real. We strive to be vulnerable, faithful, and passionate, sharing insights and stories to inspire you on your path toward Christ.
This is more than a podcast; it’s a shared journey toward sainthood. So come laugh with us, reflect with us, and grow with us as we Draw Near to God and one another. Let’s set out together on this adventure of faith, friendship, and grace.
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    <itunes:subtitle>Helping each person to draw near to Christ and to one another. </itunes:subtitle>
    <itunes:author>Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell</itunes:author>
    <itunes:summary>At Draw Near, we explore the beautiful truth that God, out of His deep and personal love for each of us, takes the first step to draw near. But this divine movement calls for a response—a response that shapes our lives and transforms our hearts. Together, we embark on this journey of faith, discovering the many ways God's grace and the power of the Holy Spirit work within us.
Rooted in the Catholic faith, our podcast is a space where authenticity meets joy. We’re two best friends navigating life, family, and faith with honesty, humility, and a lot of love. Each episode is a heartfelt conversation—sometimes deep, sometimes lighthearted, but always real. We strive to be vulnerable, faithful, and passionate, sharing insights and stories to inspire you on your path toward Christ.
This is more than a podcast; it’s a shared journey toward sainthood. So come laugh with us, reflect with us, and grow with us as we Draw Near to God and one another. Let’s set out together on this adventure of faith, friendship, and grace.
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  <title>Roses from Heaven: In Loving Memory of Catherine Thérèse Shellabarger</title>
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  <itunes:subtitle>This episode is a tribute to Catherine’s life, an acknowledgment of the deep grief of losing a child, and a witness to the hope we hold in Christ.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>5:13</itunes:duration>
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  <description>Few knew that Fred and Krystal were expecting their seventh child. At 24 weeks, their beautiful daughter’s heartbeat could no longer be detected. On January 21, 2025, with heavy hearts, they said goodbye as Krystal delivered her in the hospital.
This episode is a tribute to Catherine’s life, an acknowledgment of the deep grief of losing a child, and a witness to the hope we hold in Christ.
Please keep the Shellabarger family in your prayers. If you would like to assist in the funeral and unexpected expenses, conside giving to this fundraiser set up for them by clicking THIS LINK (https://www.givesendgo.com/GEK3R?utm_source=sharelink&amp;amp;utm_medium=copy_link&amp;amp;utm_campaign=GEK3R&amp;amp;fbclid=IwY2xjawIGfsRleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHVvcnbPX1tuwU_qKZWv2wl2kH2Oq9bCgwy3E-XCUrFJhTnfpQjY2kbaGaw_aem_jS8t4ehXR63TaiI0ttagKA). 
As we honor Catherine, we also pray for all parents who have lost a child—whether in the womb, in infancy, or beyond. May God bring comfort and peace, and may our little saints in heaven continue to guide us with their love.
Book Fred and/or Kara to speak by visiting the Draw Near "booking page (https://www.drawnear.me/booking)."
Click here (https://www.drawnear.me/donate) to become a patron! Patrons are essentially "sponsors" and co-producers or Draw Near as it could not happen without them. 
"Like" and follow us on Facebook! (https://www.facebook.com/fredandkara). Follow us on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/drawnear.me/)! 
Who are "Fred and Kara?" Find out by visiting our home page.  (https://www.drawnear.me/)
Like our podcast? Hit that “subscribe” button AND the notification button/bell to know when new episodes are posted! Give us a rating! Leave a review! Tell your friends! Even more, pray for us! 
Draw Near Theme © Fred Shellabarger &amp;amp; Kara Kardell 
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    <![CDATA[<p>Few knew that Fred and Krystal were expecting their seventh child. At 24 weeks, their beautiful daughter’s heartbeat could no longer be detected. On January 21, 2025, with heavy hearts, they said goodbye as Krystal delivered her in the hospital.</p>

<p>This episode is a tribute to Catherine’s life, an acknowledgment of the deep grief of losing a child, and a witness to the hope we hold in Christ.</p>

<p>Please keep the Shellabarger family in your prayers. If you would like to assist in the funeral and unexpected expenses, conside giving to this fundraiser set up for them by clicking <a href="https://www.givesendgo.com/GEK3R?utm_source=sharelink&utm_medium=copy_link&utm_campaign=GEK3R&fbclid=IwY2xjawIGfsRleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHVvcnbPX1tuwU_qKZWv2wl2kH2Oq9bCgwy3E-XCUrFJhTnfpQjY2kbaGaw_aem_jS8t4ehXR63TaiI0ttagKA" rel="nofollow">THIS LINK</a>. </p>

<p>As we honor Catherine, we also pray for all parents who have lost a child—whether in the womb, in infancy, or beyond. May God bring comfort and peace, and may our little saints in heaven continue to guide us with their love.</p>

<p>Book Fred and/or Kara to speak by visiting the Draw Near &quot;<a href="https://www.drawnear.me/booking" rel="nofollow">booking page</a>.&quot;</p>

<p><a href="https://www.drawnear.me/donate" rel="nofollow">Click here</a> to become a patron! Patrons are essentially &quot;sponsors&quot; and co-producers or Draw Near as it could not happen without them. <br>
&quot;Like&quot; and follow us on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/fredandkara" rel="nofollow">Facebook!</a>. Follow us on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/drawnear.me/" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a>! </p>

<p>Who are &quot;Fred and Kara?&quot; Find out by visiting our <a href="https://www.drawnear.me/" rel="nofollow">home page. </a></p>

<p>Like our podcast? Hit that “subscribe” button AND the notification button/bell to know when new episodes are posted! Give us a rating! Leave a review! Tell your friends! Even more, pray for us! </p>

<p>Draw Near Theme © Fred Shellabarger &amp; Kara Kardell</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.patreon.com/drawnear">Support Draw Near</a></p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Few knew that Fred and Krystal were expecting their seventh child. At 24 weeks, their beautiful daughter’s heartbeat could no longer be detected. On January 21, 2025, with heavy hearts, they said goodbye as Krystal delivered her in the hospital.</p>

<p>This episode is a tribute to Catherine’s life, an acknowledgment of the deep grief of losing a child, and a witness to the hope we hold in Christ.</p>

<p>Please keep the Shellabarger family in your prayers. If you would like to assist in the funeral and unexpected expenses, conside giving to this fundraiser set up for them by clicking <a href="https://www.givesendgo.com/GEK3R?utm_source=sharelink&utm_medium=copy_link&utm_campaign=GEK3R&fbclid=IwY2xjawIGfsRleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHVvcnbPX1tuwU_qKZWv2wl2kH2Oq9bCgwy3E-XCUrFJhTnfpQjY2kbaGaw_aem_jS8t4ehXR63TaiI0ttagKA" rel="nofollow">THIS LINK</a>. </p>

<p>As we honor Catherine, we also pray for all parents who have lost a child—whether in the womb, in infancy, or beyond. May God bring comfort and peace, and may our little saints in heaven continue to guide us with their love.</p>

<p>Book Fred and/or Kara to speak by visiting the Draw Near &quot;<a href="https://www.drawnear.me/booking" rel="nofollow">booking page</a>.&quot;</p>

<p><a href="https://www.drawnear.me/donate" rel="nofollow">Click here</a> to become a patron! Patrons are essentially &quot;sponsors&quot; and co-producers or Draw Near as it could not happen without them. <br>
&quot;Like&quot; and follow us on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/fredandkara" rel="nofollow">Facebook!</a>. Follow us on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/drawnear.me/" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a>! </p>

<p>Who are &quot;Fred and Kara?&quot; Find out by visiting our <a href="https://www.drawnear.me/" rel="nofollow">home page. </a></p>

<p>Like our podcast? Hit that “subscribe” button AND the notification button/bell to know when new episodes are posted! Give us a rating! Leave a review! Tell your friends! Even more, pray for us! </p>

<p>Draw Near Theme © Fred Shellabarger &amp; Kara Kardell</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.patreon.com/drawnear">Support Draw Near</a></p>]]>
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  <title>One Hour with Our Son</title>
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  <pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2023 00:15:00 -0600</pubDate>
  <author>Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell</author>
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  <itunes:author>Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>*** Trigger Warning: Infant Loss and Miscarriage ***

In this episode we are joined by our friends Danny and Ashley Swalve as we discuss their journey of coming to a deeper faith in Christ and how that has shaped their marriage and helped them to find great hope even through otherwise overwhelmingly difficult circumstances. At the heart of their testimony is their story of surrender and trust in God's will for their lives; a desire to be used by Him to help bring healing to others who have faced similar challenges. </itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>52:42</itunes:duration>
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  <description>Trigger Warning: Infant Loss and Miscarriage
In this episode we are joined by our friends Danny and Ashley Swalve as we discuss their journey of coming to a deeper faith in Christ and how that has shaped their marriage and helped them to find great hope even through otherwise overwhelmingly difficult circumstances. At the heart of their testimony is their story of surrender and trust in God's will for their lives; a desire to be used by Him to help bring healing to others who have faced similar challenges. 
*Looking for resources on infant loss? Here are some that we recommend: *
This article (https://aleteia.org/2018/10/21/here-are-places-that-can-help-if-youve-had-a-miscarriage-or-stillbirth/?fbclid=IwAR2MLVQwqAzJ1lqBZdReODEK--SYDjTNGYLaMx-7JljU_5YNNhYrTswrWE8) helped Fred and his wife, Krystal, in the immediate days and weeks following their own miscarriage
Elizabeth Ministry (www.elizabethministry.org)
Springs in the Desert (www.springsinthedesert.org)
Rachel's Vineyard (https://www.rachelsvineyard.org/) (a ministry for those needing healing from abortion)
Learn more about Danny's Podcast: https://feeds.buzzsprout.com/2115328.rss
The book Ashley mentions, "Don't Give the Enemy a Seat at Your Table: https://amzn.to/3X5Z0Lg
Who are "Fred and Kara?" Find out by visiting our home page.  (https://www.drawnear.me/) Join the Draw Near Community Space on Suscipe.co (https://community.suscipe.co/share/M1CQceCQ6cMeBTIB?utm_source=manual)
Click here (https://www.drawnear.me/donate) to become a supporter/patron! "Like" and follow us on Facebook! (https://www.facebook.com/fredandkara) You can even find us on Twitter. (https://twitter.com/fredandkara) Book Fred and/or Kara to speak by visiting the Draw Near "booking page (https://www.drawnear.me/booking)."
Like our podcast? Hit that “subscribe” button AND the notification button/bell to know when new episodes are posted! Give us a rating! Leave a review! Tell your friends! Even more, pray for us! 
Draw Near Theme © Fred Shellabarger &amp;amp; Kara Kardell 
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  <itunes:keywords>Catholic, Marriage, Infant Loss, Suffering, Surrender, Draw Near, Fred Shellabarger, Kara Kardell, Fred and Kara, Danny Swalve, Ashley Swalve, Miscarriage</itunes:keywords>
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    <![CDATA[<p><strong>Trigger Warning: Infant Loss and Miscarriage</strong><br>
In this episode we are joined by our friends Danny and Ashley Swalve as we discuss their journey of coming to a deeper faith in Christ and how that has shaped their marriage and helped them to find great hope even through otherwise overwhelmingly difficult circumstances. At the heart of their testimony is their story of surrender and trust in God&#39;s will for their lives; a desire to be used by Him to help bring healing to others who have faced similar challenges. </p>

<p>*<em>Looking for resources on infant loss? Here are some that we recommend: *</em></p>

<p><a href="https://aleteia.org/2018/10/21/here-are-places-that-can-help-if-youve-had-a-miscarriage-or-stillbirth/?fbclid=IwAR2MLVQwqAzJ1lqBZdReODEK--SYDjTNGYLaMx-7JljU_5YNNhYrTswrWE8" rel="nofollow">This article</a> helped Fred and his wife, Krystal, in the immediate days and weeks following their own miscarriage</p>

<p>[Elizabeth Ministry](<a href="http://www.elizabethministry.org" rel="nofollow">www.elizabethministry.org</a>)</p>

<p>[Springs in the Desert](<a href="http://www.springsinthedesert.org" rel="nofollow">www.springsinthedesert.org</a>)</p>

<p><a href="https://www.rachelsvineyard.org/" rel="nofollow">Rachel&#39;s Vineyard</a> (a ministry for those needing healing from abortion)</p>

<p><strong>Learn more about Danny&#39;s Podcast:</strong> <a href="https://feeds.buzzsprout.com/2115328.rss" rel="nofollow">https://feeds.buzzsprout.com/2115328.rss</a></p>

<p>The book Ashley mentions, &quot;Don&#39;t Give the Enemy a Seat at Your Table: <a href="https://amzn.to/3X5Z0Lg" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3X5Z0Lg</a></p>

<p>Who are &quot;Fred and Kara?&quot; Find out by visiting our <a href="https://www.drawnear.me/" rel="nofollow">home page. </a> Join the Draw Near Community Space on <a href="https://community.suscipe.co/share/M1CQceCQ6cMeBTIB?utm_source=manual" rel="nofollow">Suscipe.co</a></p>

<p><a href="https://www.drawnear.me/donate" rel="nofollow">Click here</a> to become a supporter/patron! &quot;Like&quot; and follow us on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/fredandkara" rel="nofollow">Facebook!</a> You can even find us on <a href="https://twitter.com/fredandkara" rel="nofollow">Twitter.</a> Book Fred and/or Kara to speak by visiting the Draw Near &quot;<a href="https://www.drawnear.me/booking" rel="nofollow">booking page</a>.&quot;</p>

<p>Like our podcast? Hit that “subscribe” button AND the notification button/bell to know when new episodes are posted! Give us a rating! Leave a review! Tell your friends! Even more, pray for us! </p>

<p>Draw Near Theme © Fred Shellabarger &amp; Kara Kardell</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.patreon.com/drawnear">Support Draw Near</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p><strong>Trigger Warning: Infant Loss and Miscarriage</strong><br>
In this episode we are joined by our friends Danny and Ashley Swalve as we discuss their journey of coming to a deeper faith in Christ and how that has shaped their marriage and helped them to find great hope even through otherwise overwhelmingly difficult circumstances. At the heart of their testimony is their story of surrender and trust in God&#39;s will for their lives; a desire to be used by Him to help bring healing to others who have faced similar challenges. </p>

<p>*<em>Looking for resources on infant loss? Here are some that we recommend: *</em></p>

<p><a href="https://aleteia.org/2018/10/21/here-are-places-that-can-help-if-youve-had-a-miscarriage-or-stillbirth/?fbclid=IwAR2MLVQwqAzJ1lqBZdReODEK--SYDjTNGYLaMx-7JljU_5YNNhYrTswrWE8" rel="nofollow">This article</a> helped Fred and his wife, Krystal, in the immediate days and weeks following their own miscarriage</p>

<p>[Elizabeth Ministry](<a href="http://www.elizabethministry.org" rel="nofollow">www.elizabethministry.org</a>)</p>

<p>[Springs in the Desert](<a href="http://www.springsinthedesert.org" rel="nofollow">www.springsinthedesert.org</a>)</p>

<p><a href="https://www.rachelsvineyard.org/" rel="nofollow">Rachel&#39;s Vineyard</a> (a ministry for those needing healing from abortion)</p>

<p><strong>Learn more about Danny&#39;s Podcast:</strong> <a href="https://feeds.buzzsprout.com/2115328.rss" rel="nofollow">https://feeds.buzzsprout.com/2115328.rss</a></p>

<p>The book Ashley mentions, &quot;Don&#39;t Give the Enemy a Seat at Your Table: <a href="https://amzn.to/3X5Z0Lg" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3X5Z0Lg</a></p>

<p>Who are &quot;Fred and Kara?&quot; Find out by visiting our <a href="https://www.drawnear.me/" rel="nofollow">home page. </a> Join the Draw Near Community Space on <a href="https://community.suscipe.co/share/M1CQceCQ6cMeBTIB?utm_source=manual" rel="nofollow">Suscipe.co</a></p>

<p><a href="https://www.drawnear.me/donate" rel="nofollow">Click here</a> to become a supporter/patron! &quot;Like&quot; and follow us on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/fredandkara" rel="nofollow">Facebook!</a> You can even find us on <a href="https://twitter.com/fredandkara" rel="nofollow">Twitter.</a> Book Fred and/or Kara to speak by visiting the Draw Near &quot;<a href="https://www.drawnear.me/booking" rel="nofollow">booking page</a>.&quot;</p>

<p>Like our podcast? Hit that “subscribe” button AND the notification button/bell to know when new episodes are posted! Give us a rating! Leave a review! Tell your friends! Even more, pray for us! </p>

<p>Draw Near Theme © Fred Shellabarger &amp; Kara Kardell</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.patreon.com/drawnear">Support Draw Near</a></p>]]>
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