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    <description>At Draw Near, we explore the beautiful truth that God, out of His deep and personal love for each of us, takes the first step to draw near. But this divine movement calls for a response—a response that shapes our lives and transforms our hearts. Together, we embark on this journey of faith, discovering the many ways God's grace and the power of the Holy Spirit work within us.
Rooted in the Catholic faith, our podcast is a space where authenticity meets joy. We’re two best friends navigating life, family, and faith with honesty, humility, and a lot of love. Each episode is a heartfelt conversation—sometimes deep, sometimes lighthearted, but always real. We strive to be vulnerable, faithful, and passionate, sharing insights and stories to inspire you on your path toward Christ.
This is more than a podcast; it’s a shared journey toward sainthood. So come laugh with us, reflect with us, and grow with us as we Draw Near to God and one another. Let’s set out together on this adventure of faith, friendship, and grace.
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    <itunes:subtitle>Helping each person to draw near to Christ and to one another. </itunes:subtitle>
    <itunes:author>Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell</itunes:author>
    <itunes:summary>At Draw Near, we explore the beautiful truth that God, out of His deep and personal love for each of us, takes the first step to draw near. But this divine movement calls for a response—a response that shapes our lives and transforms our hearts. Together, we embark on this journey of faith, discovering the many ways God's grace and the power of the Holy Spirit work within us.
Rooted in the Catholic faith, our podcast is a space where authenticity meets joy. We’re two best friends navigating life, family, and faith with honesty, humility, and a lot of love. Each episode is a heartfelt conversation—sometimes deep, sometimes lighthearted, but always real. We strive to be vulnerable, faithful, and passionate, sharing insights and stories to inspire you on your path toward Christ.
This is more than a podcast; it’s a shared journey toward sainthood. So come laugh with us, reflect with us, and grow with us as we Draw Near to God and one another. Let’s set out together on this adventure of faith, friendship, and grace.
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  <title>200th Episode Special: "Best of Guests" </title>
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  <author>Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell</author>
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  <itunes:subtitle>Fred and Kara could think of no better way to celebrate the 200th Episode of the Draw Near Catholic Podcast, than spotlighting some "Best of Guests" moments. The truth is, there are too many to fit in one episode... but this is a good start! We have Catholic Speakers and friends: Matthew Leonard, Sonja Corbitt, Sister Fidelis Marie, Julie Storr, and Father Patrick Behm</itunes:subtitle>
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  <description>We could think of no better way to celebrate our 200th Episode, than spotlighting some "Best of Guests" moments. The truth is, there are too many to fit in one episode... but this is a good start! We pray it will be a blessing to you! 
Draw Near to Christ and Draw Near to one another. Friendships rooted in Christ... with the usual sharing over coffee, has always been at the heart of Draw Near.
Fred and Kara
Listen to the episodes spotlighted: 
Ask a Priest (with Fr Pat Behm)
https://drawnear.fireside.fm/20
Redemptive Suffering (with Matthew Leonard)
https://drawnear.fireside.fm/7
God’s Ways Are Desert Ways (with Sonja Corbitt)
https://drawnear.fireside.fm/30
Spiritual Direction (with Sr Fidelis Marie)
https://drawnear.fireside.fm/41
Four Steps to Hearing God’s Voice (with Julie Storr)
https://drawnear.fireside.fm/122 
Book Fred and/or Kara to speak by visiting the Draw Near "booking page (https://www.drawnear.me/booking)."
Click here (https://www.drawnear.me/donate) to become a patron! Patrons are essentially "sponsors" and co-producers or Draw Near as it could not happen without them. 
"Like" and follow us on Facebook! (https://www.facebook.com/fredandkara). Follow us on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/drawnear.me/)! 
Who are "Fred and Kara?" Find out by visiting our home page.  (https://www.drawnear.me/)
Like our podcast? Hit that “subscribe” button AND the notification button/bell to know when new episodes are posted! Give us a rating! Leave a review! Tell your friends! Even more, pray for us! 
Draw Near Theme © Fred Shellabarger &amp;amp; Kara Kardell 
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    <![CDATA[<p>We could think of no better way to celebrate our 200th Episode, than spotlighting some &quot;Best of Guests&quot; moments. The truth is, there are too many to fit in one episode... but this is a good start! We pray it will be a blessing to you! </p>

<p>Draw Near to Christ and Draw Near to one another. Friendships rooted in Christ... with the usual sharing over coffee, has always been at the heart of Draw Near.</p>

<ul>
<li>Fred and Kara</li>
</ul>

<p>Listen to the episodes spotlighted: </p>

<p>Ask a Priest (with Fr Pat Behm)<br>
<a href="https://drawnear.fireside.fm/20" rel="nofollow">https://drawnear.fireside.fm/20</a></p>

<p>Redemptive Suffering (with Matthew Leonard)<br>
<a href="https://drawnear.fireside.fm/7" rel="nofollow">https://drawnear.fireside.fm/7</a></p>

<p>God’s Ways Are Desert Ways (with Sonja Corbitt)<br>
<a href="https://drawnear.fireside.fm/30" rel="nofollow">https://drawnear.fireside.fm/30</a></p>

<p>Spiritual Direction (with Sr Fidelis Marie)<br>
<a href="https://drawnear.fireside.fm/41" rel="nofollow">https://drawnear.fireside.fm/41</a></p>

<p>Four Steps to Hearing God’s Voice (with Julie Storr)<br>
<a href="https://drawnear.fireside.fm/122" rel="nofollow">https://drawnear.fireside.fm/122</a> </p>

<p>Book Fred and/or Kara to speak by visiting the Draw Near &quot;<a href="https://www.drawnear.me/booking" rel="nofollow">booking page</a>.&quot;</p>

<p><a href="https://www.drawnear.me/donate" rel="nofollow">Click here</a> to become a patron! Patrons are essentially &quot;sponsors&quot; and co-producers or Draw Near as it could not happen without them. <br>
&quot;Like&quot; and follow us on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/fredandkara" rel="nofollow">Facebook!</a>. Follow us on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/drawnear.me/" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a>! </p>

<p>Who are &quot;Fred and Kara?&quot; Find out by visiting our <a href="https://www.drawnear.me/" rel="nofollow">home page. </a></p>

<p>Like our podcast? Hit that “subscribe” button AND the notification button/bell to know when new episodes are posted! Give us a rating! Leave a review! Tell your friends! Even more, pray for us! </p>

<p>Draw Near Theme © Fred Shellabarger &amp; Kara Kardell</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.patreon.com/drawnear">Support Draw Near</a></p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>We could think of no better way to celebrate our 200th Episode, than spotlighting some &quot;Best of Guests&quot; moments. The truth is, there are too many to fit in one episode... but this is a good start! We pray it will be a blessing to you! </p>

<p>Draw Near to Christ and Draw Near to one another. Friendships rooted in Christ... with the usual sharing over coffee, has always been at the heart of Draw Near.</p>

<ul>
<li>Fred and Kara</li>
</ul>

<p>Listen to the episodes spotlighted: </p>

<p>Ask a Priest (with Fr Pat Behm)<br>
<a href="https://drawnear.fireside.fm/20" rel="nofollow">https://drawnear.fireside.fm/20</a></p>

<p>Redemptive Suffering (with Matthew Leonard)<br>
<a href="https://drawnear.fireside.fm/7" rel="nofollow">https://drawnear.fireside.fm/7</a></p>

<p>God’s Ways Are Desert Ways (with Sonja Corbitt)<br>
<a href="https://drawnear.fireside.fm/30" rel="nofollow">https://drawnear.fireside.fm/30</a></p>

<p>Spiritual Direction (with Sr Fidelis Marie)<br>
<a href="https://drawnear.fireside.fm/41" rel="nofollow">https://drawnear.fireside.fm/41</a></p>

<p>Four Steps to Hearing God’s Voice (with Julie Storr)<br>
<a href="https://drawnear.fireside.fm/122" rel="nofollow">https://drawnear.fireside.fm/122</a> </p>

<p>Book Fred and/or Kara to speak by visiting the Draw Near &quot;<a href="https://www.drawnear.me/booking" rel="nofollow">booking page</a>.&quot;</p>

<p><a href="https://www.drawnear.me/donate" rel="nofollow">Click here</a> to become a patron! Patrons are essentially &quot;sponsors&quot; and co-producers or Draw Near as it could not happen without them. <br>
&quot;Like&quot; and follow us on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/fredandkara" rel="nofollow">Facebook!</a>. Follow us on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/drawnear.me/" rel="nofollow">Instagram</a>! </p>

<p>Who are &quot;Fred and Kara?&quot; Find out by visiting our <a href="https://www.drawnear.me/" rel="nofollow">home page. </a></p>

<p>Like our podcast? Hit that “subscribe” button AND the notification button/bell to know when new episodes are posted! Give us a rating! Leave a review! Tell your friends! Even more, pray for us! </p>

<p>Draw Near Theme © Fred Shellabarger &amp; Kara Kardell</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.patreon.com/drawnear">Support Draw Near</a></p>]]>
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  <title>One Hour with Our Son</title>
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  <pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2023 00:15:00 -0600</pubDate>
  <author>Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell</author>
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  <itunes:subtitle>*** Trigger Warning: Infant Loss and Miscarriage ***

In this episode we are joined by our friends Danny and Ashley Swalve as we discuss their journey of coming to a deeper faith in Christ and how that has shaped their marriage and helped them to find great hope even through otherwise overwhelmingly difficult circumstances. At the heart of their testimony is their story of surrender and trust in God's will for their lives; a desire to be used by Him to help bring healing to others who have faced similar challenges. </itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>52:42</itunes:duration>
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  <description>Trigger Warning: Infant Loss and Miscarriage
In this episode we are joined by our friends Danny and Ashley Swalve as we discuss their journey of coming to a deeper faith in Christ and how that has shaped their marriage and helped them to find great hope even through otherwise overwhelmingly difficult circumstances. At the heart of their testimony is their story of surrender and trust in God's will for their lives; a desire to be used by Him to help bring healing to others who have faced similar challenges. 
*Looking for resources on infant loss? Here are some that we recommend: *
This article (https://aleteia.org/2018/10/21/here-are-places-that-can-help-if-youve-had-a-miscarriage-or-stillbirth/?fbclid=IwAR2MLVQwqAzJ1lqBZdReODEK--SYDjTNGYLaMx-7JljU_5YNNhYrTswrWE8) helped Fred and his wife, Krystal, in the immediate days and weeks following their own miscarriage
Elizabeth Ministry (www.elizabethministry.org)
Springs in the Desert (www.springsinthedesert.org)
Rachel's Vineyard (https://www.rachelsvineyard.org/) (a ministry for those needing healing from abortion)
Learn more about Danny's Podcast: https://feeds.buzzsprout.com/2115328.rss
The book Ashley mentions, "Don't Give the Enemy a Seat at Your Table: https://amzn.to/3X5Z0Lg
Who are "Fred and Kara?" Find out by visiting our home page.  (https://www.drawnear.me/) Join the Draw Near Community Space on Suscipe.co (https://community.suscipe.co/share/M1CQceCQ6cMeBTIB?utm_source=manual)
Click here (https://www.drawnear.me/donate) to become a supporter/patron! "Like" and follow us on Facebook! (https://www.facebook.com/fredandkara) You can even find us on Twitter. (https://twitter.com/fredandkara) Book Fred and/or Kara to speak by visiting the Draw Near "booking page (https://www.drawnear.me/booking)."
Like our podcast? Hit that “subscribe” button AND the notification button/bell to know when new episodes are posted! Give us a rating! Leave a review! Tell your friends! Even more, pray for us! 
Draw Near Theme © Fred Shellabarger &amp;amp; Kara Kardell 
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>Catholic, Marriage, Infant Loss, Suffering, Surrender, Draw Near, Fred Shellabarger, Kara Kardell, Fred and Kara, Danny Swalve, Ashley Swalve, Miscarriage</itunes:keywords>
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    <![CDATA[<p><strong>Trigger Warning: Infant Loss and Miscarriage</strong><br>
In this episode we are joined by our friends Danny and Ashley Swalve as we discuss their journey of coming to a deeper faith in Christ and how that has shaped their marriage and helped them to find great hope even through otherwise overwhelmingly difficult circumstances. At the heart of their testimony is their story of surrender and trust in God&#39;s will for their lives; a desire to be used by Him to help bring healing to others who have faced similar challenges. </p>

<p>*<em>Looking for resources on infant loss? Here are some that we recommend: *</em></p>

<p><a href="https://aleteia.org/2018/10/21/here-are-places-that-can-help-if-youve-had-a-miscarriage-or-stillbirth/?fbclid=IwAR2MLVQwqAzJ1lqBZdReODEK--SYDjTNGYLaMx-7JljU_5YNNhYrTswrWE8" rel="nofollow">This article</a> helped Fred and his wife, Krystal, in the immediate days and weeks following their own miscarriage</p>

<p>[Elizabeth Ministry](<a href="http://www.elizabethministry.org" rel="nofollow">www.elizabethministry.org</a>)</p>

<p>[Springs in the Desert](<a href="http://www.springsinthedesert.org" rel="nofollow">www.springsinthedesert.org</a>)</p>

<p><a href="https://www.rachelsvineyard.org/" rel="nofollow">Rachel&#39;s Vineyard</a> (a ministry for those needing healing from abortion)</p>

<p><strong>Learn more about Danny&#39;s Podcast:</strong> <a href="https://feeds.buzzsprout.com/2115328.rss" rel="nofollow">https://feeds.buzzsprout.com/2115328.rss</a></p>

<p>The book Ashley mentions, &quot;Don&#39;t Give the Enemy a Seat at Your Table: <a href="https://amzn.to/3X5Z0Lg" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3X5Z0Lg</a></p>

<p>Who are &quot;Fred and Kara?&quot; Find out by visiting our <a href="https://www.drawnear.me/" rel="nofollow">home page. </a> Join the Draw Near Community Space on <a href="https://community.suscipe.co/share/M1CQceCQ6cMeBTIB?utm_source=manual" rel="nofollow">Suscipe.co</a></p>

<p><a href="https://www.drawnear.me/donate" rel="nofollow">Click here</a> to become a supporter/patron! &quot;Like&quot; and follow us on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/fredandkara" rel="nofollow">Facebook!</a> You can even find us on <a href="https://twitter.com/fredandkara" rel="nofollow">Twitter.</a> Book Fred and/or Kara to speak by visiting the Draw Near &quot;<a href="https://www.drawnear.me/booking" rel="nofollow">booking page</a>.&quot;</p>

<p>Like our podcast? Hit that “subscribe” button AND the notification button/bell to know when new episodes are posted! Give us a rating! Leave a review! Tell your friends! Even more, pray for us! </p>

<p>Draw Near Theme © Fred Shellabarger &amp; Kara Kardell</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.patreon.com/drawnear">Support Draw Near</a></p>]]>
  </content:encoded>
  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p><strong>Trigger Warning: Infant Loss and Miscarriage</strong><br>
In this episode we are joined by our friends Danny and Ashley Swalve as we discuss their journey of coming to a deeper faith in Christ and how that has shaped their marriage and helped them to find great hope even through otherwise overwhelmingly difficult circumstances. At the heart of their testimony is their story of surrender and trust in God&#39;s will for their lives; a desire to be used by Him to help bring healing to others who have faced similar challenges. </p>

<p>*<em>Looking for resources on infant loss? Here are some that we recommend: *</em></p>

<p><a href="https://aleteia.org/2018/10/21/here-are-places-that-can-help-if-youve-had-a-miscarriage-or-stillbirth/?fbclid=IwAR2MLVQwqAzJ1lqBZdReODEK--SYDjTNGYLaMx-7JljU_5YNNhYrTswrWE8" rel="nofollow">This article</a> helped Fred and his wife, Krystal, in the immediate days and weeks following their own miscarriage</p>

<p>[Elizabeth Ministry](<a href="http://www.elizabethministry.org" rel="nofollow">www.elizabethministry.org</a>)</p>

<p>[Springs in the Desert](<a href="http://www.springsinthedesert.org" rel="nofollow">www.springsinthedesert.org</a>)</p>

<p><a href="https://www.rachelsvineyard.org/" rel="nofollow">Rachel&#39;s Vineyard</a> (a ministry for those needing healing from abortion)</p>

<p><strong>Learn more about Danny&#39;s Podcast:</strong> <a href="https://feeds.buzzsprout.com/2115328.rss" rel="nofollow">https://feeds.buzzsprout.com/2115328.rss</a></p>

<p>The book Ashley mentions, &quot;Don&#39;t Give the Enemy a Seat at Your Table: <a href="https://amzn.to/3X5Z0Lg" rel="nofollow">https://amzn.to/3X5Z0Lg</a></p>

<p>Who are &quot;Fred and Kara?&quot; Find out by visiting our <a href="https://www.drawnear.me/" rel="nofollow">home page. </a> Join the Draw Near Community Space on <a href="https://community.suscipe.co/share/M1CQceCQ6cMeBTIB?utm_source=manual" rel="nofollow">Suscipe.co</a></p>

<p><a href="https://www.drawnear.me/donate" rel="nofollow">Click here</a> to become a supporter/patron! &quot;Like&quot; and follow us on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/fredandkara" rel="nofollow">Facebook!</a> You can even find us on <a href="https://twitter.com/fredandkara" rel="nofollow">Twitter.</a> Book Fred and/or Kara to speak by visiting the Draw Near &quot;<a href="https://www.drawnear.me/booking" rel="nofollow">booking page</a>.&quot;</p>

<p>Like our podcast? Hit that “subscribe” button AND the notification button/bell to know when new episodes are posted! Give us a rating! Leave a review! Tell your friends! Even more, pray for us! </p>

<p>Draw Near Theme © Fred Shellabarger &amp; Kara Kardell</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.patreon.com/drawnear">Support Draw Near</a></p>]]>
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  <title>You talkin' about me? </title>
  <link>https://drawnear.fireside.fm/90</link>
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  <pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2023 02:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
  <author>Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell</author>
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  <itunes:subtitle>"Treat me like a human being." These were the words of a friend of ours recounting a difficult situation to us recently. These words have stuck with us since. We - like so many we'd be willing to guess - often speak of the "dignity of the human person," and yet belief in that dignity is not always evident in the experiences of daily life. Christ tells us that the world will know us by our love for one another; that we are to love one another as he has loved us. Yet, we gossip, we slander. We are quick to desire empathy and we want to be given the benefit of the doubt, but we are not always so quick to extend that to others. How can we overcome this? What are the implications of the dignity of each human person, on the way we live our lives as social beings? These are some of the topics we dive into with our good friend, and special guest, Sr Fidelis Marie. </itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>45:25</itunes:duration>
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  <description>"Treat me like a human being." These were the words of a friend of ours recounting a difficult situation to us recently. These words have stuck with us since. We - like so many we'd be willing to guess - often speak of the "dignity of the human person," and yet belief in that dignity is not always evident in the experiences of daily life. Christ tells us that the world will know us by our love for one another; that we are to love one another as he has loved us. Yet, we gossip, we slander. We are quick to desire empathy and we want to be given the benefit of the doubt, but we are not always so quick to extend that to others. How can we overcome this? What are the implications of the dignity of each human person, on the way we live our lives as social beings? These are some of the topics we dive into with our good friend, and special guest, Sr Fidelis Marie. 
*Some of the questions we discuss: *
What’s the difference between gossip and venting? When is venting unhealthy? 
What is the line between getting something off of our chest and being uncharitable? 
Has our culture trained us to not treat one another as human beings? 
What role does evaluating the intentions of others and the practice of empathy play in your interior life? 
Is there value in reflecting on how our own wounds and experiences can shape how we interact with others and perceive things? 
How should these experiences shape your relationships with others? How can we overcome our tendency to desire empathy and understanding from others but be less inclined to extend it? 
What role does vulnerability and authenticity play? 
Who are "Fred and Kara?" Find out by visiting our home page.  (https://www.drawnear.me/) Join the Draw Near Community Space on Suscipe.co (https://community.suscipe.co/share/M1CQceCQ6cMeBTIB?utm_source=manual)
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    <![CDATA[<p>&quot;Treat me like a human being.&quot; These were the words of a friend of ours recounting a difficult situation to us recently. These words have stuck with us since. We - like so many we&#39;d be willing to guess - often speak of the &quot;dignity of the human person,&quot; and yet belief in that dignity is not always evident in the experiences of daily life. Christ tells us that the world will know us by our love for one another; that we are to love one another as he has loved us. Yet, we gossip, we slander. We are quick to desire empathy and we want to be given the benefit of the doubt, but we are not always so quick to extend that to others. How can we overcome this? What are the implications of the dignity of each human person, on the way we live our lives as social beings? These are some of the topics we dive into with our good friend, and special guest, Sr Fidelis Marie. </p>

<p>*<em>Some of the questions we discuss: *</em><br>
What’s the difference between gossip and venting? When is venting unhealthy? </p>

<p>What is the line between getting something off of our chest and being uncharitable? </p>

<p>Has our culture trained us to not treat one another as human beings? </p>

<p>What role does evaluating the intentions of others and the practice of empathy play in your interior life? </p>

<p>Is there value in reflecting on how our own wounds and experiences can shape how we interact with others and perceive things? </p>

<p>How should these experiences shape your relationships with others? How can we overcome our tendency to desire empathy and understanding from others but be less inclined to extend it? </p>

<p>What role does vulnerability and authenticity play? </p>

<p>Who are &quot;Fred and Kara?&quot; Find out by visiting our <a href="https://www.drawnear.me/" rel="nofollow">home page. </a> Join the Draw Near Community Space on <a href="https://community.suscipe.co/share/M1CQceCQ6cMeBTIB?utm_source=manual" rel="nofollow">Suscipe.co</a></p>

<p><a href="https://www.drawnear.me/donate" rel="nofollow">Click here</a> to become a supporter/patron! &quot;Like&quot; and follow us on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/fredandkara" rel="nofollow">Facebook!</a> You can even find us on <a href="https://twitter.com/fredandkara" rel="nofollow">Twitter.</a> Book Fred and/or Kara to speak by visiting the Draw Near &quot;<a href="https://www.drawnear.me/booking" rel="nofollow">booking page</a>.&quot;</p>

<p>Like our podcast? Hit that “subscribe” button AND the notification button/bell to know when new episodes are posted! Give us a rating! Leave a review! Tell your friends! Even more, pray for us! </p>

<p>Draw Near Theme © Fred Shellabarger &amp; Kara Kardell</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.patreon.com/drawnear">Support Draw Near</a></p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>&quot;Treat me like a human being.&quot; These were the words of a friend of ours recounting a difficult situation to us recently. These words have stuck with us since. We - like so many we&#39;d be willing to guess - often speak of the &quot;dignity of the human person,&quot; and yet belief in that dignity is not always evident in the experiences of daily life. Christ tells us that the world will know us by our love for one another; that we are to love one another as he has loved us. Yet, we gossip, we slander. We are quick to desire empathy and we want to be given the benefit of the doubt, but we are not always so quick to extend that to others. How can we overcome this? What are the implications of the dignity of each human person, on the way we live our lives as social beings? These are some of the topics we dive into with our good friend, and special guest, Sr Fidelis Marie. </p>

<p>*<em>Some of the questions we discuss: *</em><br>
What’s the difference between gossip and venting? When is venting unhealthy? </p>

<p>What is the line between getting something off of our chest and being uncharitable? </p>

<p>Has our culture trained us to not treat one another as human beings? </p>

<p>What role does evaluating the intentions of others and the practice of empathy play in your interior life? </p>

<p>Is there value in reflecting on how our own wounds and experiences can shape how we interact with others and perceive things? </p>

<p>How should these experiences shape your relationships with others? How can we overcome our tendency to desire empathy and understanding from others but be less inclined to extend it? </p>

<p>What role does vulnerability and authenticity play? </p>

<p>Who are &quot;Fred and Kara?&quot; Find out by visiting our <a href="https://www.drawnear.me/" rel="nofollow">home page. </a> Join the Draw Near Community Space on <a href="https://community.suscipe.co/share/M1CQceCQ6cMeBTIB?utm_source=manual" rel="nofollow">Suscipe.co</a></p>

<p><a href="https://www.drawnear.me/donate" rel="nofollow">Click here</a> to become a supporter/patron! &quot;Like&quot; and follow us on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/fredandkara" rel="nofollow">Facebook!</a> You can even find us on <a href="https://twitter.com/fredandkara" rel="nofollow">Twitter.</a> Book Fred and/or Kara to speak by visiting the Draw Near &quot;<a href="https://www.drawnear.me/booking" rel="nofollow">booking page</a>.&quot;</p>

<p>Like our podcast? Hit that “subscribe” button AND the notification button/bell to know when new episodes are posted! Give us a rating! Leave a review! Tell your friends! Even more, pray for us! </p>

<p>Draw Near Theme © Fred Shellabarger &amp; Kara Kardell</p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.patreon.com/drawnear">Support Draw Near</a></p>]]>
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  <title>What Am I Supposed to Do?</title>
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  <pubDate>Wed, 10 Nov 2021 02:00:00 -0600</pubDate>
  <author>Fred Shellabarger and Kara Kardell</author>
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  <itunes:subtitle>Fred Shellabarger, Kara Kardell, and guest-Sister Fidelis Marie talk about living holiness in our every day lives on this episode of the Draw Near podcast. It's easy to get bogged down discerning the future options, vocations, or the many choices placed in front of us. Sister Fidelis gives wonderful, spiritually balanced, guidance on discerning where God calls us. We also talk about making decisions in life, consolation and desolation, wounds, and the importance of living out the call to holiness each day. We shouldn't wait until a future date to become who God created us to be! Simply say yes to God. </itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>54:26</itunes:duration>
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  <description>In this episode, we talk about living holiness in our every day lives with special friend and guest, Sister Fidelis Marie of the Missionary Benedictine Sisters.
It's easy to get bogged down discerning the future options, vocations, or the many small choices placed in front of us.
How do we know what we are supposed to do? What happens if we get off the path God wants for us? What if I'm not living in my big "V" Vocation, yet? 
Sister Fidelis gives wonderful, spiritually balanced, guidance on discerning where God calls us... DAILY! We also talk about making decisions in life, consolation and desolation, wounds, and the importance of living out the call to holiness each day. We shouldn't wait until a future date to become who God created us to be! Simply say yes to God. 
We will be leading a book study of "I Believe in Love" with our patrons/supporters! Interested? Pray about supporting the mission of Draw Near.
Click to Donate (https://www.drawnear.me/donate) to the BeardRazer! If we reach the goal of Patrons, Kara will shave Fred’s beard off live on our Draw Near Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/fredandkara)! 
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    <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we talk about living holiness in our every day lives with special friend and guest, Sister Fidelis Marie of the Missionary Benedictine Sisters.<br>
It&#39;s easy to get bogged down discerning the future options, vocations, or the many small choices placed in front of us.<br>
How do we know what we are supposed to do? What happens if we get off the path God wants for us? What if I&#39;m not living in my big &quot;V&quot; Vocation, yet? <br>
Sister Fidelis gives wonderful, spiritually balanced, guidance on discerning where God calls us... DAILY! We also talk about making decisions in life, consolation and desolation, wounds, and the importance of living out the call to holiness each day. We shouldn&#39;t wait until a future date to become who God created us to be! Simply say yes to God. </p>

<p><strong>We will be leading a book study of &quot;I Believe in Love&quot; with our patrons/supporters! Interested? Pray about supporting the mission of Draw Near.</strong><br>
Click to <a href="https://www.drawnear.me/donate" rel="nofollow">Donate</a> to the BeardRazer! If we reach the goal of Patrons, Kara will shave Fred’s beard off live on our Draw Near <a href="https://www.facebook.com/fredandkara" rel="nofollow">Facebook page</a>! </p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.patreon.com/drawnear">Support Draw Near</a></p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we talk about living holiness in our every day lives with special friend and guest, Sister Fidelis Marie of the Missionary Benedictine Sisters.<br>
It&#39;s easy to get bogged down discerning the future options, vocations, or the many small choices placed in front of us.<br>
How do we know what we are supposed to do? What happens if we get off the path God wants for us? What if I&#39;m not living in my big &quot;V&quot; Vocation, yet? <br>
Sister Fidelis gives wonderful, spiritually balanced, guidance on discerning where God calls us... DAILY! We also talk about making decisions in life, consolation and desolation, wounds, and the importance of living out the call to holiness each day. We shouldn&#39;t wait until a future date to become who God created us to be! Simply say yes to God. </p>

<p><strong>We will be leading a book study of &quot;I Believe in Love&quot; with our patrons/supporters! Interested? Pray about supporting the mission of Draw Near.</strong><br>
Click to <a href="https://www.drawnear.me/donate" rel="nofollow">Donate</a> to the BeardRazer! If we reach the goal of Patrons, Kara will shave Fred’s beard off live on our Draw Near <a href="https://www.facebook.com/fredandkara" rel="nofollow">Facebook page</a>! </p><p><a rel="payment" href="https://www.patreon.com/drawnear">Support Draw Near</a></p>]]>
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